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There's a place for you here.

New to Richmond? Unfamiliar with the Episcopal Church, or with Christianity? Welcome. 

Whoever you are, wherever you are in your spiritual journey, the people of St. Stephen's Church hope that your experience with this church will encourage and strengthen you. 

As you browse our Web site, you might consider: 

  • visiting St. Stephen's for a worship service and/or watching our livestreamed services

  • coming to an informal supper

  • stopping by the Farmers Market on Saturday morning

  • attending one of our receptions for visitors and newcomers

  • signing up for an Inquirers Class

  • subscribing to St. Stephen's weekly email, the eSpirit; there is no cost, no obligation, and we will not share your email address with any outside group

  • attending a retreat, workshop or group, or participating in any of the other offerings you'll see on these pages.

Do as much or as little as you like. There are no "requirements" for being a part of this community of faith. If you wish to be baptized or confirmed, or to transfer your membership from another Episcopal parish, we'd love for you to do so. But it's not required. Everything we do, everything we offer, is open to all, regardless of whether you are a "member" of this church. If you're here, you belong. 

Here's an online visitor card: it's not required--it just helps us to be more responsive to you!

St. Stephen's Episcopal Church
6000 Grove Avenue
Richmond, VA 23226
804.288.2867

Our services

St. Stephen's is a vibrant parish offering several kinds of worship services. Sunday, of course, is our big day. You are most welcome at any of the services held here.

Sunday schedule (from the Sunday after Labor Day through the Sunday before Memorial Day)

8:00 a.m., Holy Eucharist: Rite One
9:00 a.m., Holy Eucharist: Rite Two*, in the main church and in Palmer Hall Chapel
10:10 a.m., Education for all ages*
11:15 a.m., Holy Eucharist, Rite Two*
5:30 p.m., Celtic Evensong and Communion
6:30 p.m., Sunday Community Supper
8:00 p.m., Compline

Sunday schedule (from Memorial Day weekend through Labor Day weekend)

8:00 a.m., Holy Eucharist: Rite One
10:00 a.m., Holy Eucharist: Rite Two*
5:30 p.m., Celtic Evensong and Communion*
6:30 p.m., Sunday Community Supper
8:00 p.m., Compline

*indicates child care available through age 4

Weekday worship

Year-round
8:10 a.m., Morning Prayer with Communion

(When the parish office is closed for a holiday or due to inclement weather, weekday Morning Prayer does not take place.) 

Where we're located

St. Stephen's is located at the corner of Three Chopt Road and Grove Avenue (the address is 600 Grove Avenue), near the University of Richmond and across the street from St. Catherine's School.

If you are coming to the church office, the most direct route is through the double glass doors to the parish house off the parking lot on Somerset.  If you're coming for a worship service, you can enter from Grove Avenue or Three Chopt Road.

Accessibility

There are several entrances to the church and parish house that are designed to be accessible to those with mobility issues or other physical limitations:

All entrances to the church, and the main entrance to the parish house, are equipped with power-assist doors. In addition, the main entrance to the parish house, from the large parking lot, has an elevator on the ground floor that allows you to bypass the steps. The Grove Avenue entrance to the main church is gently sloped, without steps, and the Three Chopt Road entrance has a ramp.

Inside the church, several pews are shortened to allow space for a wheelchair or walker: the first pews on either side of the center aisle, nearest the altar, and the pews near the large baptismal font.

The church is equipped with assistive hearing devices for the hearing-impaired. Please ask an usher for one of these devices as you enter the church.

From birth through high school

St. Stephen's Church has an active ministry for children and youth, staffed by an energetic and talented family ministries staff and dedicated, well-trained volunteers. Our family ministry staff sends an email newsletter to parents for which you may sign up.

Our main offering for young children is Catechesis of the Good Shepherd. For youth in grades 6-12, we use Journey to Adulthood. Both are highly regarded spiritual formation approaches.

We also strive to provide opportunities for parents to learn, grow, and receive support from other parents and from our clergy.

HOLY BAPTISM

Holy Baptism is available for babies, children, and adults. Read more about Baptism and preparation here.

CONFIRMATION 

At St. Stephen's, young people who desire to be confirmed in the Episcopal Church may enter the preparation process in the ninth grade or later. Confirmation takes place when one of our bishops visits St. Stephen's, usually in May.

Young adults

Young adults--single or partnered, with children or not, in college or working--are invited to take part in everything St. Stephen's has to offer, from worship to small groups, choirs to Sunday Community suppers, from outreach and volunteer activities to our environmental stewardship group.

We have tagged 20s and 30s as "young adulthood" but many who participate in young adult activities are in their 40s. The bottom line is, no one will ask you your age--if you think of yourself as a young adult, so do we!

While young adults at St. Stephen's sometimes gather with others in their age cohort, everyone is welcome to join a group or a class with adults of all ages. 

Children and teenagers love having adults who are closer to their age as teachers and mentors. You do not have to be a parent to serve in our ministries among children and youth.

Many young adults particularly enjoy the Compline service at St. Stephen's Church, held Sunday nights at 8 in the church. This ancient service is used as the last service of the day in monastic communities, cathedrals, churches, and schools, and many people say it in their homes. (It's found on page 127 of the Book of Common Prayer.) At St. Stephen's, the service is sung by a mixed a cappella choir. The choir chants prayers and psalms, interspersed with motets. It's an exquisite service, with candles (no other lighting) and incense. Those who attend sit in or lie on a pew in silence, praying, meditating or simply listening to the music. The service lasts just 30 minutes. 

We livestream our main Sunday morning service, our Celtic service, and Compline each Sunday. You'll find these on our Web site, on our Facebook page, and on our YouTube channel.

A fellowship

One of the distinctive things about being an Episcopalian is the sense of connection and fellowship one has with other Episcopalian Christians. St. Stephen's Episcopal Church is part of the Diocese of Virginia, one of the oldest and largest dioceses in the Episcopal Church. The Episcopal Church is part of the worldwide Anglican Communion.

Our diocese includes 80,000 people who worship God and reach out to others in nearly 180 parishes in 38 counties in central, northern and northwestern Virginia. It is one of three Episcopal dioceses in the Commonwealth of Virginia, the others being the Diocese of Southwestern Virginia (based in Roanoke) and the Diocese of Southern Virginia (based in Norfolk). You can read more about the Diocese of Virginia at thediocese.net.

The best way to learn about what it means to be a Christian in the Episcopal tradition is to attend an inquirers class. This class usually meets once a week for seven weeks and is taught by our clergy two or three times each year.

 

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Sunday Schedule

Holy Eucharist: 8:00, 9:00, 11:15

Christian Education for all ages: 10:10 (returning September)

OUR LOCATION

6000 Grove Avenue Richmond, VA 23226
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Speechless in wonder

The following article is reprinted from the Advent-Christmas-Epiphany 2017 edition of our quarterly publication, Seasons of the Spirit. It is a conversation between Michael Sweeney, then director of family ministries, and Sarah Moyar-Thacker, our lead catechist.

You know what a treasure St. Stephen’s gothic church is—its soaring stone walls, its stained glass windows, its beautiful baptismal font. But do you know about St. Stephen’s better-hidden treasure? Upstairs in the parish house are five wonderfully-appointed atria—sacred spaces where children and adults gather on Sunday mornings for Catechesis of the Good Shepherd. Even those of us who know and love these spaces don’t always realize what a gift they are. We get used to them. Each summer, dozens of people travel to St. Stephen’s from all over the state for our week-long catechist training course, and every year the reaction of our visitors reminds me how special the atria are. It’s like seeing Peter, John, and James on the mount of the transfiguration. So if you’ve never visited the atria, I encourage you to do so. Now is a good time. Come during Advent to hear the familiar prophecies retold, and experience them afresh through a child’s wonder. Hopefully this brief conversation with our lead catechist, Sarah Moyar-Thacker, will whet your appetite.  

Sarah: In the atrium during Advent we listen to the prophecies that are connected to this time of waiting and expectation in our church year. A candle is lit and the children listen as a catechist reads from Isaiah, “The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light.” (Isaiah 9:2a) We invite the children to wonder about these words. What could they mean? What is the prophet telling us? How can these words that were spoken so many years ago speak to us now? 

Michael: Those are great questions. Questions that might rightly leave a person—child or adult—speechless in wonder. One of the things I love about Catechesis of the Good Shepherd is the philosophy (from its Montessori roots) that “silence is a valid response.” There’s no anxiety on the part of the catechist to get an answer, to have his or her work validated by the child’s response; she knows that the fruit always belongs to God, and that much of it is not visible. Meanwhile, the anxious teacher asks more and more questions, leaving less and less silence in between, and resorts finally to either answering the questions himself or forcing a student to speak. As a teacher, I have felt this anxiety. Had I been at the manger, would I have interrupted Mary’s pondering, her treasuring of the shepherd’s words, to ask if maybe THIS is what Isaiah was talking about in chapter 9, verse 2? 

Sarah: In the atrium, the materials are one way we avoid this temptation to ask too many questions or give too many answers. The materials are physical objects that allow the children to continue to think about what they have heard, to let their hands “work” with it, while heart, mind, and soul do their work of pondering and treasuring. In Advent, for example, we have a small wooden figure with head tilted up and arms open to the world. This statue represents the prophet. It does not have any colors or features. It is just a simple visual representation of a stance or gesture. It could be seen as open listening or proclamation, depending on your interpretation. 

Michael: I love this. First, it makes sense that Catechesis of the Good Shepherd materials are simple, not overly detailed. This is another way of not saying too much, isn’t it? Like the catechist, the materials are restrained, that Christ might speak through them. Second, I love that the prophet figure’s posture is ambiguous. It reminds me that open listening and proclamation are inseparable—all right speech arises out of listening, whether to the Holy Spirit or another human being. This is what the incarnation is all about: we begin with open listening (Advent), we hear something that transforms us (Christmas), and we proclaim the good news we have heard (Epiphany).

Sarah: What you’ve just described is very similar to what we tell the children about prophets. Catechists say that a prophet is “someone who listens to God with their whole heart and tells others what they hear.” How beautiful is this idea? To listen to God with one’s whole heart. Often when the children are remembering this definition they will raise their hands to the sky or place a hand over their heart. We wonder about the words of these prophets who loved God so much that they listened with their whole heart and then went even further and shared with others what they heard—shared the words that we are still listening to today, words that help us ponder the great mystery of the incarnation.  

Training for catechists (and potential catechists)

The approach of Catechesis of the Good Shepherd is so different from traditional Sunday school that special training is offered for those who would like to serve in this ministry. At St. Stephen’s Church, we offer training every summer for catechists from this parish and other churches, of any denomination, led by Anna Hurdle, one of the foremost Catechesis trainers in the country. This training is worthwhile even if you are not certain that you want to serve as a catechist.

Information about upcoming training: Level One // Level Two

About Catechesis of the Good Shepherd

Catechesis of the Good Shepherd (kat-eh-KEE-siss) // Catechesis of the Good Shepherd is a unique approach to the spiritual nurture of young children. Based on the work of Sofia Cavalleti and Maria Montessori, this offering recognizes that children are already in touch with God in their deepest being. 

Catechist (KAT-eh-kist) // A guide; not a “teacher” in the traditional sense, but an adult who wonders with the child

Atrium // The specially-prepared sacred space in which Catechesis of the Good Shepherd takes place

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